The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck: Wedding Edition

Ah, the grand celebration of love and commitment, where two souls embark on a sacred journey together - the wedding day. Traditionally a day filled with joy, laughter, and extravagant festivities, it is an occasion where emotions run high and expectations are often a swirling storm. But what if I told you that amidst this whirlwind of wedding chaos, there lies a secret to remaining sane and calm? DON’T GIVE A FUCK.

Weddings, as blissful as they may appear, can sometimes turn into a pressure cooker of stress, anxiety, and overwhelming desire to please everyone. From the choice of venue to the seating arrangements, from the color scheme to the array of desserts, the list seems never-ending. But here's a valuable little secret: it's okay not to give a fuck about every single detail.

First and foremost, let's talk about opinions, those precocious little devils that dance around the wedding planning process. Everyone, from your well-meaning Great Aunt Martha to your long-lost friend from high school, will undoubtedly offer their opinions. On the flowers, the menu, even the font on the invitations. It's vital to remember that you are not obligated to listen to every suggestion or criticism. Take a deep breath, smile politely, and then let it go. Embrace the IDGAF about the opinions that don't align with your own vision for your special day.

Now, let's tackle the dreaded guest list. Creating the perfect social alchemy can be a real headache. Trying to please everyone and accommodate even the most distant of acquaintances can quickly become overwhelming. But guess what? It's your wedding. You get to invite the people who truly matter to you. So, dare to be selective. Prioritize the relationships that bring love and joy into your life. Embrace the IDGAF about societal expectations or external pressures when it comes to creating your guest list.

Flawlessness is an elusive concept that tends to rear its head during the wedding planning process. So much time and energy are spent chasing after the myth of the perfect day. Remember, perfection is an illusion. Unexpected mishaps, last-minute changes, or even unpredictable weather can derail even the most meticulously planned ceremony. Instead of striving for an unattainable ideal, focus on what truly matters – the love you share with your partner and the commitment you are making together. Embrace the IDGAF about minor imperfections, and instead revel in the beauty of the real, raw, and imperfect moments that will make your wedding truly special.

Lastly, and most importantly, do not forget about yourselves in all the wedding chaos. Amidst the excitement, it's easy to get swept away in pleasing others, meeting expectations, and catering to everyone else's desires. But remember, your wedding day is about you and your partner. So, take a step back, breathe, and focus on what truly matters. Embrace the IDGAF about the outside noise and prioritize your own happiness and well-being.

IDGAF can be a liberating and empowering philosophy to adopt when planning your wedding. Let go of unnecessary stress, unrealistic expectations, and the desire to please everyone. Embrace what truly matters, cherish the moments that make your heart sing, and rejoice in the love that brought you two together in the first place.

So go forth, dear couple, and embrace the IDGAF on your wedding day.

Cheers to a celebration that is uniquely and unapologetically yours!


Kindness & love,
J